There exists in the realm of Pickup Artists many schools of thoughts. Naturally with these schools of thoughts there exists different gurus, specialists, pickup artists, and disciples. There are systems that concentrate on simply getting as much sex as you can, systems that instruct you how you can get as many girls as possible, and those that show you ways to gain and maintain real relationships. All these pickup artist tactics are variations of a fundamental system but at different complexities. I personally do not like the sex systems due to the fact that they are shallow, abuse the pickup artist methods, and usually are cheap, quick fixes that skim on the art of attracting women. I prefer systems that concentrate on actual relationships and treating women like human beings instead of a talking blow up doll.
If you study pickup artist techniques, there exists an entire parallel universe complete with their own language, viewpoint, code system, and dogma. Amongst the many pickup artist methods and systems, I will review the world famous and legendary: Mystery's M3 Model. This is among the first systems that was actually codified into a set structure and functions as the skeleton/guideline for most of the systems out there.
Attraction
1. Open
2. Female to Male Interest
3. Male to Female Interest
Comfort
1. Building Rapport
2. Building emotional and physical connections
3. Intimacy
Seduction
1. Arousal
2. Last Minute Resistance
3. Sex
A1. Open
You open the set, meaning you initiate contact by approaching them. This includes the dreaded cold approaches, pickup lines, and starting a conversation. Must also include a Social Hook Point. This is the pivotal moment in the beginning of a cold interaction where the set (girls, group of girls, group of guys/girls) want you to stick around for a bit, because you are interesting. This is done by hooking their interest through negging or an interesting discussion sparked by the opener.
A2. Female to Male Interest
You need to get the girl interested, attracted, and/or intrigued in you first. This is done by DHV (Demonstrating High Value). The primary reason women are attracted to men is when men have a high implied value. There are many pickup artist tactics to demonstrating high value and they include: story telling, gimmicks, magic demonstrations, psychic readings, negging (veiled teasing), funny conversation, etc.
A3. Male to Female Interest
In this stage, The HB (Hot Babe) should be baited into demonstrating her own value. By doing this, you're just attracted to her by her personality or wit, besides her her appearance. You should have her gain your interest and be interested in something besides her looks. Since you have already shown your high value from A2, you are in a slight position of power and in a position to judge if she is cool enough to hang with you.
C1. Building Rapport
In this phase, just the two of you should be chilling and talking. This is to create a sense of comfort with one another. This is the time to relax and just bullshit with each other, find any commonalities, and start to relate to each other.
C2. Building emotional and physical connections
Emotional connection is simply talk taken to the next level. Here you want to throw in some stories that make you look vulnerable and sensitive such as childhood memories and insights into your thoughts. After emotional connection has been established, you instantly want to escalate the physical connection using kino (touching). Kinoing is the very best method to develop out of the nasty "buddy zone" into the sexual zone.
C3. Intimacy
The C3 takes place at a possible sex location. The talking/cuddling/kissing gets heavy making-out and now it's time to get horizontal.
S1. Arousal
Once you get to this stage, it is beyond the scope of pickup techniques, but another subject all together: your sexual game. The important thing is to escalate from C3 to S1 smoothly, naturally, and with precise timing. If you escalate too early or unnaturally, the girl will get buyer's remorse and you might blow everything!
S2. LMR (Last Minute Resistance)
Mystery wisely says: "Last Minute Resistance. This is the point of no return before sex occurs. It's often a freak-out moment for the woman." "This is moving too fast..." "I just met you..." "I'm not ready for this..." Or just pushes your hand away from her important areas. The majority of women don't want to seem like a slut so they will throw up some form of LMR. The key here is to not be needy and desperate but rather reinforce the idea that she wants this and you are offering a service.
S3. Sex
Have fun and be sure to call/text her. Real artists don't abandon their art after its finished.
If you study pickup artist techniques, there exists an entire parallel universe complete with their own language, viewpoint, code system, and dogma. Amongst the many pickup artist methods and systems, I will review the world famous and legendary: Mystery's M3 Model. This is among the first systems that was actually codified into a set structure and functions as the skeleton/guideline for most of the systems out there.
Attraction
1. Open
2. Female to Male Interest
3. Male to Female Interest
Comfort
1. Building Rapport
2. Building emotional and physical connections
3. Intimacy
Seduction
1. Arousal
2. Last Minute Resistance
3. Sex
A1. Open
You open the set, meaning you initiate contact by approaching them. This includes the dreaded cold approaches, pickup lines, and starting a conversation. Must also include a Social Hook Point. This is the pivotal moment in the beginning of a cold interaction where the set (girls, group of girls, group of guys/girls) want you to stick around for a bit, because you are interesting. This is done by hooking their interest through negging or an interesting discussion sparked by the opener.
A2. Female to Male Interest
You need to get the girl interested, attracted, and/or intrigued in you first. This is done by DHV (Demonstrating High Value). The primary reason women are attracted to men is when men have a high implied value. There are many pickup artist tactics to demonstrating high value and they include: story telling, gimmicks, magic demonstrations, psychic readings, negging (veiled teasing), funny conversation, etc.
A3. Male to Female Interest
In this stage, The HB (Hot Babe) should be baited into demonstrating her own value. By doing this, you're just attracted to her by her personality or wit, besides her her appearance. You should have her gain your interest and be interested in something besides her looks. Since you have already shown your high value from A2, you are in a slight position of power and in a position to judge if she is cool enough to hang with you.
C1. Building Rapport
In this phase, just the two of you should be chilling and talking. This is to create a sense of comfort with one another. This is the time to relax and just bullshit with each other, find any commonalities, and start to relate to each other.
C2. Building emotional and physical connections
Emotional connection is simply talk taken to the next level. Here you want to throw in some stories that make you look vulnerable and sensitive such as childhood memories and insights into your thoughts. After emotional connection has been established, you instantly want to escalate the physical connection using kino (touching). Kinoing is the very best method to develop out of the nasty "buddy zone" into the sexual zone.
C3. Intimacy
The C3 takes place at a possible sex location. The talking/cuddling/kissing gets heavy making-out and now it's time to get horizontal.
S1. Arousal
Once you get to this stage, it is beyond the scope of pickup techniques, but another subject all together: your sexual game. The important thing is to escalate from C3 to S1 smoothly, naturally, and with precise timing. If you escalate too early or unnaturally, the girl will get buyer's remorse and you might blow everything!
S2. LMR (Last Minute Resistance)
Mystery wisely says: "Last Minute Resistance. This is the point of no return before sex occurs. It's often a freak-out moment for the woman." "This is moving too fast..." "I just met you..." "I'm not ready for this..." Or just pushes your hand away from her important areas. The majority of women don't want to seem like a slut so they will throw up some form of LMR. The key here is to not be needy and desperate but rather reinforce the idea that she wants this and you are offering a service.
S3. Sex
Have fun and be sure to call/text her. Real artists don't abandon their art after its finished.
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