By Brennan Klompmaker
If you want to put an end to your stammering on your own, not having to rely on pathologists and
professional therapists to help you, there are only two things you need to remember. First of all, your perceptions, attitude and feelings regarding your stutter. Second, you must change your behavior connected to the stammer.To change those perceptions, attitudes and feelings, you have to do something to lessen, or even remove, your fear of speaking in front of others, of the mingling in social life, and of making yourself look like a fool. In other words, you must overcome your urge to avoid situations where someone might expect you to speak, whether as a guest speaker or as part of a group.
I guess for people who speak fluently, they just don't know what stammerers go through. To them, they look at a stammerer, and see someone who struggles with speaking. Well, I think this type of speech problem is like an iceberg. What everyone else sees is only a fraction of the problem. When I stuttered, my confidence was at rock bottom, and felt very unhappy with where I was in life.I also used to shy away from large social gatherings, or places where I would have to speak a lot, or speak louder than normal, such as clubs. Often, I would simply decide to stay in at home by myself, than go out and have fun partying with my friends, all because I was terrified of stuttering like crazy, and people looking at me like I was some sort of freak.
I hated living like that! I wanted to go out and enjoy myself, without the overwhelming fear hanging over me, ruining my fun. So I went on a mission to learn how to stop stammering once and for all.One of the things I learned about how to stop stammering, was that the problems are often caused by a lack of confidence and self esteem issues. Well, I wasn't surprised as this was exactly what I was suffering with! So I knew I had to turn myself around here, but I wanted some techniques to improve my speaking straight away also.
That's when I learned this technique. Basically, in order to speak more fluently, you need to start talking slower, and move your mouth around a lot more. Exaggerate what you're saying with your lips. I often mumbled a lot whilst I was a stammerer, and this technique teaches you to speak more clearly and fluently.This was a great method to learn how to stop stammering, however I didn't want to speak like this forever. I didn't simply want to talk slower, I wanted to speak like everyone else!
Learning how to stop stuttering can drastically change your life, providing you are a stutterer to begin with. Although it may seem an impossibility at first, there are definitely methods out there that can at least help you radically improve your speech. The fact that even heavy stutterers tend to be able to articulate fluently in special situations, implies that stuttering is oftentimes a curable problem. These 'special situations' can range from speaking in unison, singing along to even being drunk. Since stuttering is curable and the benefits of curing are immense, it is strongly advised that a stutterer never gives up on his or her wish to stop stuttering.
Several 'tricks' exist, that may work for some, but not for others. Remember that the only way for you to know whether something works for you, is to try,Special devices like the speecheasy will fool your brain into thinking you're speaking in unison. The device fits in your ear, much like a hearing aid.Try engaging in a challenging sport that involves a solid measure of physical and mental discipline. Martial arts like karate are a good choice.Try "singing" the words. Remember British idol star Gareth Gates? He had major trouble speaking, but is a great singer. I'm not saying you should go about life singing on every occasion, but make it a method of practicing control.Consistently give yourself the mental command 'stutter now' every time you start speaking. Do this weeks on end. This involves making stuttering a conscious process and thus giving you the ability to control and manipulate it.
There is no instant cure for stammering - you're well likely to encounter a number of people who would offer a miracle cure for stammering, but quite frankly, the "cure" there usually consists of methods that require ongoing practice. And by definition, that is not a "cure", but... it definitely helps you manage your stuttering, even to a point where it is hardly noticeable at all.There are many famous people who stammer but have achieved success and significance - Winston Churchill, Bill Walton, Marilyn Monroe, Bob Love, King George VI are just some of the big time persona who had to deal with stammering. You as an individual should not let stammering affect you, or determine the vocation and life that you will live. There are many individuals who have made a difference with their lives and have impacted society in a great way, even though they found it hard to stop their stuttering.
Speaking in front of a group of people or talking on the telephone can exacerbate stuttering. Other situations such as singing may cause the symptoms of stuttering to disappear.It is estimated that over three million Americans stutter. Stuttering appears most frequently in children between the ages of 2 and 6. Stuttering affects boys 3 times more often than girls.
Most children outgrown stuttering. It is estimated that less than 1 % of adults suffer from stuttering.Causes of Stuttering,Researchers believe there are a variety of causes of stuttering. The most frequently seen cause of stuttering is in young children who are in the process of developing speech. This type of stuttering is usually outgrown.
Another cause of stuttering is a neurogenic ailment caused by signaling disruptions between the brain and the nerves and muscles used for forming speech. Neurogenic stuttering may develop because of a stroke or other type of brain injury.Other forms of stuttering are psychogenic, caused by the mental activity of the brain. At one time it was thought that stuttering was mostly psychogenic, brought on by emotional traumas and problems, but it is now known that this is true only in a small number of cases. Psychogenic stuttering can occur in a person who has experienced some ordeal or severe stress. The stutterer may develop emotional problems and fears surrounding speech as a result of his stuttering.Researchers know that stuttering can run in families and it may have a genetic component. No gene has been isolated yet that causes stuttering.
professional therapists to help you, there are only two things you need to remember. First of all, your perceptions, attitude and feelings regarding your stutter. Second, you must change your behavior connected to the stammer.To change those perceptions, attitudes and feelings, you have to do something to lessen, or even remove, your fear of speaking in front of others, of the mingling in social life, and of making yourself look like a fool. In other words, you must overcome your urge to avoid situations where someone might expect you to speak, whether as a guest speaker or as part of a group.
I guess for people who speak fluently, they just don't know what stammerers go through. To them, they look at a stammerer, and see someone who struggles with speaking. Well, I think this type of speech problem is like an iceberg. What everyone else sees is only a fraction of the problem. When I stuttered, my confidence was at rock bottom, and felt very unhappy with where I was in life.I also used to shy away from large social gatherings, or places where I would have to speak a lot, or speak louder than normal, such as clubs. Often, I would simply decide to stay in at home by myself, than go out and have fun partying with my friends, all because I was terrified of stuttering like crazy, and people looking at me like I was some sort of freak.
I hated living like that! I wanted to go out and enjoy myself, without the overwhelming fear hanging over me, ruining my fun. So I went on a mission to learn how to stop stammering once and for all.One of the things I learned about how to stop stammering, was that the problems are often caused by a lack of confidence and self esteem issues. Well, I wasn't surprised as this was exactly what I was suffering with! So I knew I had to turn myself around here, but I wanted some techniques to improve my speaking straight away also.
That's when I learned this technique. Basically, in order to speak more fluently, you need to start talking slower, and move your mouth around a lot more. Exaggerate what you're saying with your lips. I often mumbled a lot whilst I was a stammerer, and this technique teaches you to speak more clearly and fluently.This was a great method to learn how to stop stammering, however I didn't want to speak like this forever. I didn't simply want to talk slower, I wanted to speak like everyone else!
Learning how to stop stuttering can drastically change your life, providing you are a stutterer to begin with. Although it may seem an impossibility at first, there are definitely methods out there that can at least help you radically improve your speech. The fact that even heavy stutterers tend to be able to articulate fluently in special situations, implies that stuttering is oftentimes a curable problem. These 'special situations' can range from speaking in unison, singing along to even being drunk. Since stuttering is curable and the benefits of curing are immense, it is strongly advised that a stutterer never gives up on his or her wish to stop stuttering.
Several 'tricks' exist, that may work for some, but not for others. Remember that the only way for you to know whether something works for you, is to try,Special devices like the speecheasy will fool your brain into thinking you're speaking in unison. The device fits in your ear, much like a hearing aid.Try engaging in a challenging sport that involves a solid measure of physical and mental discipline. Martial arts like karate are a good choice.Try "singing" the words. Remember British idol star Gareth Gates? He had major trouble speaking, but is a great singer. I'm not saying you should go about life singing on every occasion, but make it a method of practicing control.Consistently give yourself the mental command 'stutter now' every time you start speaking. Do this weeks on end. This involves making stuttering a conscious process and thus giving you the ability to control and manipulate it.
There is no instant cure for stammering - you're well likely to encounter a number of people who would offer a miracle cure for stammering, but quite frankly, the "cure" there usually consists of methods that require ongoing practice. And by definition, that is not a "cure", but... it definitely helps you manage your stuttering, even to a point where it is hardly noticeable at all.There are many famous people who stammer but have achieved success and significance - Winston Churchill, Bill Walton, Marilyn Monroe, Bob Love, King George VI are just some of the big time persona who had to deal with stammering. You as an individual should not let stammering affect you, or determine the vocation and life that you will live. There are many individuals who have made a difference with their lives and have impacted society in a great way, even though they found it hard to stop their stuttering.
Speaking in front of a group of people or talking on the telephone can exacerbate stuttering. Other situations such as singing may cause the symptoms of stuttering to disappear.It is estimated that over three million Americans stutter. Stuttering appears most frequently in children between the ages of 2 and 6. Stuttering affects boys 3 times more often than girls.
Most children outgrown stuttering. It is estimated that less than 1 % of adults suffer from stuttering.Causes of Stuttering,Researchers believe there are a variety of causes of stuttering. The most frequently seen cause of stuttering is in young children who are in the process of developing speech. This type of stuttering is usually outgrown.
Another cause of stuttering is a neurogenic ailment caused by signaling disruptions between the brain and the nerves and muscles used for forming speech. Neurogenic stuttering may develop because of a stroke or other type of brain injury.Other forms of stuttering are psychogenic, caused by the mental activity of the brain. At one time it was thought that stuttering was mostly psychogenic, brought on by emotional traumas and problems, but it is now known that this is true only in a small number of cases. Psychogenic stuttering can occur in a person who has experienced some ordeal or severe stress. The stutterer may develop emotional problems and fears surrounding speech as a result of his stuttering.Researchers know that stuttering can run in families and it may have a genetic component. No gene has been isolated yet that causes stuttering.
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